Hey Guys,
I’m back from my cruise in the Caribbean where we had a great time. In fact I’m already signed up for next year and I will extend the invitation to join me next year at cost. I had a fantastic time and I will be putting a lot more up about the cruise later on in the week. However while I was away my family had a very difficult time.
When my parents picked me up from the airport they had some very sad news to share with me. My Aunt Margaret whom I was very close to (I considered her to be my 2nd mom) had died while I was away. The funeral is on Monday and I’m in absolute shock.
Please forgive me if it takes me a while to get back into the swing of things as this is the relative that I was closest with (outside of my immediate family). Oftentimes I would go over to their house and just hang out with Margaret and Ken and we’d chit chat for hours about life in general.
Margaret was always very nice, thoughtful and caring of others. She brightened up many people’s lives and her work ethic was outstanding. She accomplished so much in the little time she had on this earth and always took the time to do the little things that mean the most like sending out thank you cards, printing off photos and sending them, writing letters and calling to check in with me.
Margaret had a real flair for decorating and cooking and the holidays will frankly be very bland without her as she was very good at bringing the whole family together and making everyone feel welcome.
I will miss her deeply and it scares me about my own mortality as she seemed very fit and healthy to the rest of us and this just happened without any warning.
134 Comments
Bruno Auger
January 17, 2009Sorry to hear about you loss Reed. Take the time you need to cope with the situation. I’m sure once your back and get your focus back you’ll be just as good as ever.
likewhoa
January 17, 2009I am sorry for your lost.
Micheal Savoie
January 17, 2009Sorry on the loss of your Aunt. I know how you feel as I was very close to one of my Uncles who pass away while I was on my honeymoon. When my mom told me about it, I was devastated. You will be on our thoughts and prayers.
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Dave McIntosh
January 17, 2009Sorry for your loss. I personally will pray that you come to peace with your loss and your creator. being close to Family will help for sure.
Dave
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Kristi Qualley
January 17, 2009Reed, My deepest condolences to you and your loved ones. You are in my prayers. Kristi Q. I lost a close aunt in 2001 and it is never quite the same . Take care.
Denise
January 17, 2009I’m very sorry to hear about your aunt. You’re right – no one ever knows what may happen at any given time, so we should all live each day as if it were our last.
Take care.
Denise
Nikki Cooper
January 17, 2009My deepest condolences to you and your family Reed.
Kind Regards
Nikki Cooper
Curtis
January 17, 2009Reed,
My condolences for your loss. This is a time for you and your family to be together and you don’t need to be sorry for not being “in the swing of things”. My thoughts are with you and your family.
Curtis
Ed Gereshenski
January 17, 2009I am so sorry to hear of any loved ones passing. you have my deepest sympathy but someday you will be near her again.
Pat Gunning
January 17, 2009My condolences Reed, losing a loved one is never easy.
Situations such as these always remind us to say the important things to those who remain and are close to us.
God will welcome her!
Stuart Halpryn
January 17, 2009reed,
not the kind of surprise we like to get after
coming back from a trip…
my condolences to you & your family.
regards,
stuart halpryn
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normz2
January 17, 2009I share your grief. She was a good person and will always be with you in mind and spirit. Time heals.
Lela
January 17, 2009Condolences. My sympathy to you and the family.
John Bonzo
January 17, 2009Reed,
I’m so sorry to hear about your aunt. I lost an aunt that I was close to this week also. I think I know how you must feel. Please, hang in there and lets both get to work right away.
My heart is with you,
John
Melanie
January 17, 2009Reed, I am deeply sorry for your loss and I know how hard it is. I lost my mom 5 years ago when I was 29 and she was my best friend. You should take all the time you need, it is really important that you do that. Try and spend time with your family and after a period of grief, try to sit down and appreciate what you do have still. That is what I do now. Only time will heal this wound. No words or incidents will help you, just time. My deepest sympathies to you and your family.
Sincerely,
Melanie
Kristi Sayles
January 17, 2009I’m so sorry, Reed. I hate that you’ve lost someone so dear to you.
When I suddenly lost my 18 year old stepson to a car wreck, I realized just how precious my loved ones are to me. You should always remember that the last things you’ve said to a person, really could be the “last.” Make them sweet.
Hugs,
Kristi
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Calla
January 17, 2009Hey Reed,
I’m really sorry about your aunt. 🙁 I remember how sweet she was. I hope you and your family will be ok.
nick wiese
January 17, 2009Hi there Reed from Nick: It is quite a loss to us who are still alive when people die but we are still here, so there is something to learning about greeving and we must go on and i have known people who went to 3 funerals in one weekend and they were 70 plus look in the paper births & deaths, wow??? so my younger friend take heed crisco&margarine,diet pop and microwaves shorten our life, study up, more on this at another time. Sorry for your loss/recover be stronger ,later, Nick
Frank Melton
January 17, 2009Reed, I offer my deepest condolences. It is always very hard to experience these events.
When you and your readers get to my age (69)
you will discover that they come more often.
But alas, it still does not get any easier.
My best to you and your family,
Frank
Asher
January 17, 2009Hi Reed,
Sorry to hear of your loss. Please take care of yourself during this period.
Asher
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Al Sinden
January 17, 2009Please pass on my condolences to Margaret’s husband, Reed. He’ll need you now, more than ever, to help him grieve and heal through sharing your memories, and the laughs and smiles those will bring, as well as the tears.
Start working with the rest of your family to put together a “memory book” about your Aunt Margaret that can be passed down to Zachery and the rest of the younger generation. It will help give them an idea about what the “good old days” were like, and what a wonderful person Margaret was.
Henrik Blunck
January 17, 2009Sincere condolences, Reed.
Take all the time you need. Noone expects you to service freebies who follow you more than family and friends. Showing the best respects on Monday is vital to turning the chapter in the best possible way.
Warm regards in the worst of circumstances.
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Kevin Mollett
January 17, 2009Reed,I am really sorry to here about
your Aunt keep your chin up Friend.
It just goes to show you that we need
to let our loved ones know regularly
that we love and appreciate them while
we can.Take all the time you need to
come back and we are thinking of you
my Friend Take care!
David Alexander
January 17, 2009Sorry to hear about your loss Reed, To go from such joy to this kind of pain is very hard to deal with, take your time you have my deepest sympathies.
Ron
January 17, 2009I’m very sorry for your loss, Reed.
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Ruth Shultz
January 17, 2009I understand how you feel Reed because my Aunt Polly was like your Aunt Margaret in my family. She made all the special days twice as wonderful.
I only had her in my life for a short time as I was the youngest in my family.
Gather pictures of her and make copies and make “Margaret Albumns” for each of your family so they too can remember the good times with this remarkable person.
I know it’s a sad time for you right now Reed but you will get past it and given the person she was you will remember with fondness this wonderful lady.
Just remember people like her do go to a good place after passing away…at least that is what I believe. For me the afterlife is something to which one can look forward.
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Terry
January 17, 2009Sorry for your loss,take care.
Chad Flick
January 17, 2009Hi Reed,
I’m sorry for your loss and wanted you to know you and your loved ones will be in my prayers.
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Fionnuala
January 17, 2009Hi Reed
My sincere condolences to you, your family and Margaret’s husband Ken. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
God Bless
Fionnuala
Diana Adams
January 17, 2009Hey Reed, I had a Aunt Margaret too. She died of breat cancer in 2001. She used to make the best Chili, crabcakes & spaghetti…Oh and lemonaid. Not all the same time of course! So I know how you feel, cause thats a woman that made you feel safe.
We made a cookbook out of her recipes and we gave it to all our Family members. Its Called Aunt Margarets Cooking…You could do the same to honor your aunt. Anyhow. Take time to be with family, and its time for LOTS of Hugs!
Even from your online family!
Blessings, Diana Adams
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David Enders, D.C.
January 17, 2009Reed: Very sorry to hear of the loss of your aunt. Family is always most important – everything else is second. Spend time with your family now – that’s what they and you need to do…
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Peter
January 17, 2009Reed, I am sorry for your loss. It is never easy. It is during these times that you and your family should pull together. The love you share for each other and the love you have for your Aunty, whilst not lessening the loss, will give you all the strength to carry on.
Peace and Blessings,
Peter
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Howard Morris
January 17, 2009Reed;
Out thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. May you all find peace.
Melody Baker
January 17, 2009Hello Reed,
I am so sorry. I cannot imagine how it feels. But my HEART and Prayers go out to you
verdeman
January 17, 2009Reed,
Sorry about your aunt, i know to well what its like to lose someone dear to you. just remember the good times you had together, it will ease the pain a little.
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Jill Webb
January 17, 2009So sorry to hear your sad news Reed.
If there were more people like your Aunt Margaret in this world – it would be a better place.
Take some time out with your family… and treasure your memories.
Take care
Nancy Anderson
January 17, 2009Reed, I feel badly for the loss of your beloved Aunt. You will be tempted to try to bury yourself in work to fill the empty pit you feel in your being. Perhaps one way to help is to icentify one quality that made her so special to you; one that you could make a part of who you are, and first, practice making those qualities part of yourself by using them with your wife and new son, and then using them with friends and business acquaintences. In that way, you become a living memorial to your Aunt.
I didn’t say this well, but I hope I have expressed that I am so very sorry that your Aunt Margaret died. My feelings are with you and your family as you deal with your loss.
Tommy C
January 17, 2009Reed,
I’m very sorry for your loss. Please take the time you need. The loss of a family member takes time to heal. My prayers are sincerely with you and your family.
lourdes
January 17, 2009my deepest sympathy. allow yourself to grieve and treasure the lovely memories.
take care
Judy Miller
January 17, 2009Hi Reed, so sorry for your loss. This is the most difficult part of life. Do take all the time you need to be with your loved ones. Sounds like she was a very special person. I have a daughter who is 43 and she had a massive stroke back in Sept. (way too young to have a massive stroke.) Her right side is paralyzed and her speech is damaged. The brain does have the ability to re-generate itself, but only time will tell, how much of the actual damage will heal. Just another example of how we just never know what life holds for us. She lost a 75k yr job and is, for now, in a wheel chair. We should all live life to its’ fullest while we have the ability to do so. My prayers are with you and your family. Take care and God bless.
Judy
Tim Ackley
January 17, 2009Reed,
sorry to hear of your loss,
as you made mention of your own mortality……
Let’s all take the time to tell the people we are close to that we love them each and every day.
That has been my practice since being diagnosed with cancer four years ago. I am doing fine, but
no one knows the limits of their time here.
Anne
January 17, 2009Sorry to hear about your loss Reed. Take the time you need to be with your family, I’m sure your online family will be here when you get back.
Take care!
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Denise Pederson
January 17, 2009So sorry to hear of your loss, Reed. Was this your Dad or you Mom’s sister? I met your Dad too, and please extend my sympathies to your parents also.
Denise
carol trudeau
January 17, 2009Reed, My heart goes out to you and your family, Peace & Blessed Be…
Carol
Carrie Pierce
January 17, 2009Reed, I was very saddened to read your post today. It seems like this new year is starting out rough for many folks.
Thank you for sharing your grief and shock so openly with us.
You are very correct: Life IS short- and so often we lose sight of what is truly important… what truly matters, along the way.
You are in our thoughts and prayers- as is your extended family.
Please let us know how you are doing as the next few days and weeks unfold.
Ernie Carroll
January 17, 2009I’m very sorry to hear of your loss, Reed.
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Bolb Maqrconi
January 17, 2009My sympathies to you and your family.
Donzie Welgoss
January 17, 2009Reed,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I know it is a difficult time. My Mom died last year on Feb.8 and sometimes it seems like yesterday. I lost my Aunt that I was named after 20 years ago. We were very close. Even though they are not here with me now, I know they touch everything I do in some way. I hope this helps you know you are not alone and that the love you have for your Aunt and the things you learned from her will never die and part of her will always be with you. Maybe you can think of some tangible way to honor her. My prayers are with you and your family.
God Bless You,
Donzie Welgoss
Greg
January 17, 2009Reed.
My sincere condolences to you and your family at this difficult time in your lives.
Lost loved ones are never really gone if we keep them in out hearts.
Greg.
chuck hall
January 17, 2009Hang in there buddy
chuck
Percival
January 17, 2009Reed,
Welcome back. We truly missed you.
My deepest condolence to you and your family for the passing away of your Aunt Margaret. While we always experience the pain of separation when we lose our loved ones, it should not be a reason for us to be sad. We all must face the reality of death.
There is one very good reason why we should be happy when a loved one passes away. Your aunt has now joined her Creator, and is living in bliss. She is through with the difficulties attendant to her earthly life.
Just remember that your aunt really never died. She continues to live but a higher plane of existence. What happened was that she left her earthly body, but she continues to live.
Where is she now? I am sure she is beside you right now. Talk to her, and tell her everything you had wanted to tell her while she was alive, but was not able to. Tell her how much you love. That is an added joy for her as she leaves you.
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Robb Auspitz
January 17, 2009Reed,
My deepest sympathies to you and your family. Hang in there.
Roy Sharpe
January 17, 2009Reed, my thoughts and sympathies to you and yours. It is not easy to lose a loved one but it is also nice to realize the many nices times you spent with aunt and her family.
All the best,
Roy
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Betti
January 17, 2009My deepest sympathies to you and your family. I recenlty lost my youngest brother. My only comfort is that knowing he is not suffering & in a much better place. And knowing that he is watching over me.
Mary (Win Back Lost Love)
January 17, 2009I am terribly sorry for your loss Reed.
Take your time getting back into the swing of things. Your family is more important than business.
Mary
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Darren Harris
January 17, 2009So sorry for your loss
Darren
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James Delong
January 18, 2009Sorry about your loss, my heart goes out to you and your family.
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Lorrie Herndon
January 18, 2009Reed,
God be with you and your family through this trying time.
I understand your loss. I lost my mother is will be a year on January 23rd. It is a most terrible feeling in the world. But with GOD’s grace you and your family can and will get through this.
Take all the time you need to be with your family, they are what is most important now and always.
GOD BE WITH YOU ALL
Greg
January 18, 2009My condolences to you and your family for your loss.
I lost my grandparents 22 years ago (9 weeks apart), and I’ll be going back to see their headstone for the first time next week since we buried them both.
They were both very close to me, and I’ve missed them since they both passed away. They’re gone, but never really forgotten.
Tim Caron
January 18, 2009My sincsere condolenses, May the Lord Bless and Keep you and your family during these trying times, I’m sure that everyone including myself will say a prayer for all concerned.
Tim Caron
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Jesdakorn S.
January 18, 2009Sorry for your loss, just keep going.
Dixie Brown
January 18, 2009Reed:
I know that you are hurting right now from the lost of your aunt. However,know that she must have been an extraordinary individual and deserving as God has called her to HIS side.
Take time to remember the precious moments of laughter, expression of love and the feelings she filled you up with of being the extraordinary individual that you are.
God be with you and your family as you morn the loss of a very special person in your life.
You have my number if you need to talk.
Lucille Crystal
January 18, 2009Reed, am so sorry for your loss. Please don’t rush back to work too soon. Take your time and be with your Family until you can cope with everything. Enjoy your Wife and Precious Son. Show them how much you love them everyday.
I lost my wonderful Mother in Law on Labor Day, The one that just passed and my Nephew on Thanksgiving Day and my First Cousin the end of October.
We will see you when you get back to work, Lucille Crystal
phyllis neff
January 18, 2009My deepest sympathy to your family. I have exprerienced the same. My aunt Verna passed away
on January 5th. Also a friend’s relative passed away and was burried exactly one week later on Friday at 10 am. It was a strange coincidence,but
I know where you are coming from.As you think about your own life the most important thing to know is where you will be in eternity. John 3:16
may God bless you and your family with salvation thru Jesus Christ!
David
January 18, 2009Hi Reed,
As many know, Earth-life is balance. When anyone ‘leaves’ us (graduates from Earth-life), it’s a time to celebrate their graduation – they have completed their mission. On the other side of balance is our inherent sense of loss & therefore a time to mourn. I believe you & your family will find the balance between celebration of Margaret’s life & mourning your sense of loss.
Margaret’s essence hasn’t gone anywhere – she’s just in a different form & will always be with you & everyone who knows her.
Radiate Love!
huggerlady
January 18, 2009Hi Reed,
So sorry to hear about your loss! Stay close to your Uncle Ken and the memories and stories of your times together will help you both heal.
much love and huggs and you are all in my prayers.
hugg,hugg
juanita
aka huggerlady
Vicki Zerbee
January 18, 2009Very sorry about your aunt.. losing someone so special and important in our lives is very hard and takes time to grieve. Keep your happy memories alive.. you will always have those.
Michael Pearson
January 18, 2009My condolencenses on your recent loss. There are those special individuals who add so much to our lives. She was a jewel and will be sorely missed.
You just keep doing what your doing, adding to the total picture until your time arrives. We are all mortal and will meet our maker soon enough. It is the quality we bring to our existence, not the duration.
Much love and respect,
Michael
Roger
January 18, 2009My condolences to you and your family for your loss. You are right life is but a vapour, but eternity is not. I don’t have time to write alot but for consolation go have a look at our website, it will give you peace.
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Patricia
January 18, 2009Hi Reed, My condolences to you and your family for your loss.I lost my son Carlton back in May so I can relate. May God bless you and you family.
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Leonard
January 18, 2009Hi Reed,
Sorry for your loss.
I will be praying for you and your family.
Leonard
Nayanika
January 18, 2009Hi Reed
Did you know that Death is the curtain that prepares one for the next life..you second mom has led such a beautiful life and she will now have a fantastic preparation time to return to give more of herself..bless her and yourself for enjoying the moments with her and through the mental talk [read thought] let her know you are still with her by recalling and living those moments locked in thought with Mom Margaret….
Bless you
charles
January 18, 2009Sorry to hear of your loss. Allow yourself to visit the memories from time to time.
chuck
Laurence Parr
January 18, 2009I hear you , my friend .
It is not an enviable situation.
Take your time, God will fill you in..
Liam
January 18, 2009My condolences, Reed. Life and death can be a mystery that really stands out at a time of death.
Peace be with you.
Sharon Barnes
January 18, 2009Reed -I am very sorry to hear about your loss. Although it may not seem like it right now, it really does get easier with time. We mourn and grieve our loss, but usually find the strength to continue. Allow yourself time to grieve and cherish your memories with your Aunt. This is truly a very important part of the healing process. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this time. Godspeed!
subroto
January 18, 2009Reed – My deepest condolences are here. I share
your grief. When you come back into your
work time will help you to get relieved.
subroto chakravarty
Laura
January 18, 2009Reed,
So sorry to hear of your loss. Take the time you need to pay your respect to your aunt. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts.
Geoff Dodd
January 18, 2009Reed, testing times… sorry to hear of your loss. Sometimes the best of people are whisked away to a transcendent place and we have fond memories to keep us..
Geoff Dodd
Phil Henderson
January 18, 2009Reed
Susan and I are truly sorry to hear of your loss. We have both lost key family members and we share your pain.
Both Susan and I thoroughly enjoyed the time we were allowed to share with you during the marketers cruise.
Our thoughts are with you and your family at this sad time.
God bless
Phil and Susan Henderson
Did's
January 18, 2009Reed, realy deeply sorry for your loss and I know how hard it is. I am also lost my Dad 2 years ago and he was my best friend and guru..
But with this happen we have to understand that life is very very wonderfull and we have to thanks to God for our live.. enjoy it and do the best…
To your success,
Didi
Dee Ferdinand
January 18, 2009Hi Reed
My Deepest condolences to you & your family
I pray that you will be strengthen in your sorrow time and will see a new joy 🙂
Best Regards
Dee
Kraig Grayson
January 18, 2009My condolences on your loss Reed. With the support of family and friends you will all make it through this difficult period.
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Noreen MacKinnon
January 18, 2009Reed:
Welcome back. So sorry to hear about the loss of your Aunt. I understand exactly what you are going through.
My thoughts and prayer’s are with you at this time.
Take care,
Noreen
michael lim
January 18, 2009i am new here. I am very sorry about your aunt. Dun be sad, continue your good job , everything is almost over.
Reed, Take care.
To your success,
michael
Patricia Yeager
January 18, 2009Reed,
My heart goes out to you and your family on your so unexpected and sadden lost, especially when it was so
suddenly. Try to hold strong, I guess the one above had
better plans for her… I’ll be here waiting for you…
Patricia
Stephen Voight
January 18, 2009Reed, It sometimes seems that after we master hitting lifes’ curve balls..she throws us a new pitch and we are left wondering what it is all about anyway. It is easy to get lost in grief and I can see that her best qualities are alive in your work. Your work is her honor and that is a gift to all of us. I wish you peace and I thank-you for your efforts.
Stephen Voight
Jack Bradley
January 18, 2009Hi Reed,
I can relate to your loss; my mother passed away in August. I believe most agree that this is just another another part of life, and my prayers are with you and your family. Be thankful of your memories, for that is what keeps our loved ones with us forever.
Sincerely,
Jack Bradley
Olga O'Mara
January 18, 2009Dear Reed,
My most sincere condolences to you and your family. I sympathize with you – I know how you feel, but I also know that this does not make the pain be less. It’s your very private pain and you should not hide it but express it the way you find it fit.
It would be good to devote some time for her Memory such a making a Scrap-Book or an other Project in her Memory and give it to other Members of your Family.
Your aunt’s husband will need a lot of quality time from the Family to slowly accept her death.
Since you said you were often there, so this is where you would need to spend time and talk about the times you spent together when your aunt was alive.
There are many Religions who really celebrate Death as if it were a happy event for we do not know where the dead are going.
It should be a comfort to know that your friends and loved ones sincerely care for you.
As for your own mortality…, well it’s normal
that you feel that way in time like this. But you should remember that Birth and Death are not understood and not really known as yet if they ever be.
Enjoy your life to the fullest in a positive way. Convey your feelings of love and care to the people you care NOW, while they are with you, because we don’t know what tomorrow will bring.
Don’t grief too long. Your Aunt would not want you to do that – she would not like to see you sad and suffering. And Your Life, has to go on.
At one time I grieved for my loved-one too long and too deeply that I myself got ill – don’t You do that.
This post has been too long, but I wanted to ease your pain even if it were just a little.
Also it may be some comfort to all of us to know that no one gets out of this LIFE alive.
Jonathan Lake
January 18, 2009Hi Reed,
My heart goes out to you mate at this sad time. I lost my Grandmother whilst on honeymoon in 1990, it was horrible coming back to that kind of news. I now hold on to the fact that she is with me in spirit and I enjoy all the lovely memories.
Take care
Jonathan
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Wendy Anderson
January 18, 2009I’m so sorry, Reed. Being with family is the best thing for you now. God’s richest blessing and peace be with you and all those that are grieving for Margaret.
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Scott Raven
January 18, 2009Hi Reed,
I know how difficult things are after this kind of loss. Sharlene and I would like to express our deepest sympathy to you and your entire family.
On November 4, my maternal grandmother (who helped raise me) had a severe stroke and passed away on November 11. This was very difficult, as I was very close to her.
Then on December 11, one month exactly after her passing, we got a call that my paternal grandmother had passed away.
Death is something that, although it is inevitable, it is never expected when it happens. It is also difficult to get past, especially if you are close to the friend or relative.
I’m sure you’ll grieve for quite some time, but remember this…
After looking through some of the comments on this post, you have a LOT of friends who are sending out a lot of good thoughts and a lot of prayers.
You are rich, my friend…very rich!
Our prayers are with you as well.
Sincerely,
Scott & Sharlene Raven
Raven Media Group
Brenda Poulsen
January 18, 2009Hi Reed…I am very sorry for the loss of your aunt. She sounded like a wonderful woman. My husband died 3 years ago and I have done a LOT of research on death, what happens, after death, etc.
DO NOT be afraid about death. It is easier than being born. Know that you never cross over alone. There will always be someone that has passed before you to greet you and guide you. Just as it was for your aunt.
If there is anything I can help you with now, let me know. This is a very difficult time for you and we can all use a little help. Sending lots of hugs…Brenda
ivan
January 18, 2009Reed..My sincere condolences to you and your family at this difficult time in your lives.
It’s not easy to say farewell to someone dear and beloved to you and your family.
She will always be with you and your family forever.
Brenda Poulsen
January 18, 2009Hi again Reed..I forgot to mention about your uncle. As much as you are grieving he is 100 fold. He will need his family now. There will be days when he will have a very hard time just to function let alone get anything done. Go to him and if all you do is sit with him in silence and hold him, his hand and if he wants to talk let him. There are no answers to death but he will need to talk. Embrace him closer now than before. Don’t shy away from your emotions but allow them. You are all very fragile right now. Again, I am here if you need help with anything. hugs
james
January 18, 2009my condolences to you and your family. the energy that she embodied lives on in you and all those whose life she touched. grieve now and remember she is watching and waiting to hear from you. continue to send her the flowers you shared while in your presence.
UNCONDITIONAL LOVE ALWAYS
JAMES
Alfred
January 18, 2009Reed,
Im very sorry for the loss of your aunt. My prayer’s are with you.
Take care,
Alfred
Ari Lestariono
January 18, 2009Reed, please accept my mourns, only the loved ones that real important in our lives, nothing else matter, may your aunt Rest in Peace and God will accept her soul in Heaven.
Kevin
January 18, 2009Dear Reed
My thoughts are with you on your sad loss.
I have lost my Mum and my brother within the last two years and I sometimes wonder if I’ll ever be able to live with their loss.
All I can say is the old cliche that “time heals” – I don’t really know if it heals us but as time goes on we do find ways to cope with the sadness.
Take care
Kindest regards
Kevin
Newtone
January 18, 2009Reed,
I am really sorry for sad demise of your aunt. May almighty keep in heaven. I also lost my Bua (father,s sister). So, we all are getting bad news these days. Really sorry for eveyone.
Terrie Routh
January 18, 2009Reed, I was going to say that I’m glad you didn’t drown like that missing elderly couple is suspected…but rather more appropriately, I am sorry for your loss. I lost dad, my best friend, 7 years ago, so I know what you are going through. Keep your chin up like your expecting it to rain, and remember the good times-she would had wanted it that way.
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Peter Loughlin
January 18, 2009Reed, I’m sorry for your loss. While it may be difficult right now, try to remember that we are all here for a time and come and go at our appointed times. This is as life is designed. All is well….
God Bless you and your family
Lyndall
January 18, 2009Reed – very sad to hear of your loss – my sympathy to you and all your family
Lyndall
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Altis Lo (Beaulife)
January 18, 2009I am very sorry and regret to hear that. You must be strong now to get over the grief and I am very sure your auntie wishes you all the best too. We are all very concern and hope you get back to normal very soon.
Richard
January 18, 2009Condolences Reed. Sometimes we only really appreciate those close to us when we lose them, but you seem to have appreciated your aunt.
I’m sure you’ll get over the loss in time, and be back with a bang!
Richard
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Ferdinand
January 18, 2009My condolences Reed. I’m sure she’s fine being with our Creator now.
Brad Spencer
January 18, 2009Reed,
I am really sorry to hear about your loss. I too have lost people and it’s hard. It will get better and…at least for me…the key to making it easier is to be more of the person that person helped you become.
In other words, honor her through your actions. I know you will. You are a rockin internet marketer. You are honest, good, and your information helps a lot of people. Keep it up and she’ll live on through your actions and the lives you touch.
Best wishes and I hope you feel better!
Brad Spencer
John Byrne
January 18, 2009Been there several times Reed. I’ve learned it’s not about when you move on to the next stage, it’s all about what you get done while you’re here. It sounds like your Aunt accomplished quite a lot. How much of who you are is because of her? See what I mean?
The big question is how much will each of us accomplish in our time?
Peace,
John.
Marney Lewis
January 18, 2009I’m SO sorry to hear about your loss Reed! I lost my father just before Christmas and know how disorienting it can be, and hard to focus on work as you grieve.
Take the time you need to regroup with your family. That time is a very important part of the process.
I wish you all the best this coming new year and enjoyed reading your found memories of your Aunt.
Liz Nichols
January 18, 2009My condolences. I lost an aunt this past week also. She was 97 and it was expected to happen soon, but it is always a shock in any case. It’s particularly sad when they’re relatively young and seem healthy, as was the case with your aunt.
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delords
January 19, 2009Sorry about the Bad News Reed,
We feel the loss and hope GOD gives
the family the strength and comfort to
bear this.
Life on earth is a journey we all came
into the world and would certainly leave
the world,i have heard several people who
just in the year with a dear Christian
brother who passed on on new years day while
everyone was celebrating.
Certainly we will all die one day but what
matters is how we have gone in our journey from earth to eternity and what hope we have
for our life in eternity.
Dying isn’t a bad thing but its where the soul
of the departed went to.
Reed i hope your Aunt is in heaven smiling down to you all.
So Get Comforted and continue with life.
http://journeyfromearth.blogspot.com/
Donna Kay
January 19, 2009I am sorry for your loss. I was close to my grandparents and my mom, and it was hard for me to adjust to it. My mom passed away in October of 2007, so I really haven’t gotten adjusted to her being gone. I wasn’t as close to my dad, but I still loved him. I know my grandparents and my mom are in Heaven, and I will join them one day, but I am afraid that I can’t say that about my dad. I hope that you are saved and will see your loved ones in Heaven too. Take a look at this website: http://www.andeshelp.com/salvation.htm.
bet
January 19, 2009Sorry about the loss of your aunt, Reed. Also, condolences to all the people on the list who have lost dear ones. They will always be with you in spirit. Hugs and prayers.
Lori
January 19, 2009Hi Reed, I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I lost my father last year on Fathers day and I can relate to what you may be going through and getting back into the swing of things. My prayers are with you.
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Roger
January 19, 2009Accept my condolences on the loss of your very special aunt. I was intrigued that you were scared of your own mortality. May I ask the question that if you died as you were reading this, would you know beyond a shadow of a doubt where you would spend eternity? We can know for sure, it will either be heaven or hell, and its whst each person does with Jesus. I don’t want to sound preachy, but if you would like to know more, I would be more than glad to share with you. I am from Minnesota also, a little town of Milan in west central, just nw of Montevideo. Anyway, God bless you and give it some thought.
Stacey Warner
January 19, 2009I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I lost my father a year ago and it can be hard to take. But then I realized that I had him with all the time now because he is in spirit. anytime I want to talk to him I can and I will even hear him answer me if I am quite and I listen. I had to remind myself that as spirit we live on and there is no real death.
I hope that helped you.
Love and light,
Stacey_zzzz
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January 19, 2009hi Reed,
I am so sorry about the bad news, may the God bless your Aunt and your family
Corinne
January 19, 2009I was very sorry to hear of your loss. May God bless you and guide you in this time of need.
Rich Cook
January 20, 2009Hey Reed,
I am really sorry to hear about your aunt.I had such good time meeting you on the cruise and hanging out. My condolences go out to you and your entire family and friends. Please take the time you need to heal.Take care and God Bless.
Rich Cook
Gia Carrozzi
January 20, 2009Hey Reed,
Sorry to here about your Aunt. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Beatrice
January 20, 2009You have many people that care for you, you are blessed. Time helds the heart.
Luca
January 21, 2009Hey Reed,
I’m sorry to hear about your loss. Moments like this really put perspective back in our lives. Our family is the number one priority but sometimes we get so caught up in our daily routines that we forget that.
Our thoughts are with you and your family at this difficult time.
Take care
Timothy Millar
January 22, 2009Hey Reed, Sorry for your loss, Hang in there and be strong for the rest of the family.
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KAMBAI YINYAI
January 23, 2009DEAR REED,
VERY SORRY FOR THE LOST OF YOUR LOVED ONE. PLEASE ACCEPT MY CONDOLENCE. HOWEVER I THANKYOU FOR BEING ABLE TO COPE WITH SOME OF MY QUESTIONS. TAKE YOUR TIME AND GOD BLESS YOU.
jane semng'indo
January 23, 2009Dear Reed,
I’m sorry for your loss,please accept my condolences.Be strong for the sake of Margareth and cherish her memory. In her love you learned how to be strong, courageous,generous, patient and loving.God loved her more that’s why He took her away from you and everyone else.It’s painful. I pray that only God will comfort you, His comfort surpasses all human comfort.God bless you.
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January 25, 2009I’m so sorry to hear about your aunt, my sympathy to you and all your family…
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Henry Griner
January 29, 2009Reed,
I was just going over your blog and saw this post about your loss. I knew your were away on the cruise and had not heard about this until now.
My the Lord bring comfort to you and your family as you go through the process of grief. As many others have said, death is a part of life but that does not make missing a loved one easy.
Blessings to you and your family Reed.
Henry
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Ganar Dinero
April 4, 2009Sorry For Your Lost. 🙁
Chris
April 7, 2009Reed, I’m so sorry for you loss, she must have been a wonderful lady. I can only say one thing for the future that 9/11 taught me– NEVER, EVER
let someone you care about leave your presence or hang up a phone without saying “I love you” it may be the last words they hear from you, or you hear from them. It’s really helped me deal with losses over the last few years. I know it’s too late to tell her for her now, but she knows, believe me, she knows!
Richard Beekman
April 13, 2009Your in my prayers, God Bless you.
Richard……..
Ruth Shultz
April 22, 2009I am so sorry to hear of your loss Reed. I know what it means to loose both a Mom and a 2nd Mom. May God be with you at this time of grief and know that she is with Him now
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Marsha
November 18, 2009I hope you and your loved ones have a most wonderful Thanksgiving next week. We have much to be thankful for!
I wanted to give you a ‘heads up’ to your email inbox. I sent you an audio to listen to via email and want to be sure you found it.
Blessings, Marsha
Miguel Santos
January 19, 2010Sorry to hear about your loss. I hope you overcome this unfortunate situation with all the strength that you need!
Linda Pepin
September 21, 2010Hi Reed,
I’m very sorry to hear about your Aunt’s passing. I lost my baby brother a couple of years ago. He was only 42. I couldn’t help but notice your comment that says, “it scares me about my own mortality.”
I know how you feel. I had breast cancer a few years ago and wondered if I was going to live or not.
Feel free to check out the page I wrote on how to know for sure you can go to heaven when you die at http://www.christian-home-business-help.com/the-gospel.html
I used to be afraid to die because I didn’t know what was in store for me after death but I’m no longer afraid because I know for sure I’ll live forever and ever in eternity with Jesus in Heaven where there is no more sorry and no more pain. I’ll have a new body and I’ll see all my family and friends again who have accepted Jesus Christ as their Saviour.
You’re in my prayers,
Linda
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